Sex experts explain how to use all the main types of vibrators to achieve orgasm—plus, what to consider before buying a new sex toy and pleasure-enhancing tips.

Welcome to your new favorite instruction manual.

By Naydeline Mejia and Lindsay GellerUpdated: Apr 30, 2025 3:03 PM EDTReviewed by Rachel Wright, LMFTPsychotherapist and Sex Therapist- Bullet Vibrators

• Wand Vibrators

• Clitoral Suction Vibrators

• Other External Vibrators

• G-Spot Vibrators

• Rabbit Vibrators

• What To Consider When Shopping For A Vibrator

• Even More Ways To Use A Vibrator

• Enjoy Your Best O Ever With These Clit Vibrators

• The 13 Best Sex Positions to Stimulate Your Clit

The easiest way to use a bullet vibrator is to place the tip on your clitoris and see how your body reacts to different vibration levels and patterns. But if that’s too intense, move the tip away from your clit for some indirect sensation. You can also start by drawing circles around your vulva with the tip of the bullet as a sort of warm-up before zeroing in on your clit.

Because bullets are so small, they can also be a pretty seamless addition to penetrative sex. Either partner can hold the bullet on the receiving partner’s clit while the penetrating partner enters them with their penis or strap-on. Pro tip: It’s easiest to do this during a from-behind sex position, like doggy style, because you don’t have to worry about trying to fit a hand in between your bodies. Having the penetrating partner reach around from behind or having the receiving partner press the bullet on their vulva will likely be most comfortable and satisfying for everyone involved.

Whatever you do, however, do not put a bullet vibrator inside you because its small size can make it extremely difficult (not to mention, awkward) to get out.

Bullet Vibrators We LoveBest Overall Bullet VibratorMAUDE Maude Vibe $52 at Amazon$52 at Revolve$52 at Bloomingdale’sOne reviewer called this their “new go-to bullet” and specifically praised the versatility of the Maude Vibe. “The tip is perfect for pinpointed clitoral stimulation, but if you’re not in the mood for that kind of precision, the entire toy vibrates, so you can also press the ‘longer’ side against your body,” they said.

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Best Bullet Vibrator For Partnered PlayDame Pom$95 at dame.com$95 at Amazon$99 at Bloomingdale’sThe Dame Pom is ergonomic, which means it’s easy to hold, and it’s wider than other small, bullet-style vibrators, according to Richmond. One Women’s Health editor said that although this won’t be their go-to product for solo sex, “the Pom is perfect for partnered play because it’s very unobtrusive and fits between our bodies well.”

Best Travel-Friendly Bullet VibratorLe Wand PointNow 72% Off$130 $37 at lewandmassager.comAlthough the Le Wand Point is pricier than some other bullet vibrators, our tester found it to be worth the cost—especially if you’re on the hunt for a vibe that’s more powerful than other options, yet quiet and discreet. They also loved the vibe’s six speeds and 15 vibration modes and its travel lock feature.

Best Overall Bullet VibratorMAUDE Maude Vibe $52 at Amazon$52 at Revolve$52 at Bloomingdale’sOne reviewer called this their “new go-to bullet” and specifically praised the versatility of the Maude Vibe. “The tip is perfect for pinpointed clitoral stimulation, but if you’re not in the mood for that kind of precision, the entire toy vibrates, so you can also press the ‘longer’ side against your body,” they said.

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Best Bullet Vibrator For Partnered PlayDame Pom$95 at dame.com$95 at Amazon$99 at Bloomingdale’sThe Dame Pom is ergonomic, which means it’s easy to hold, and it’s wider than other small, bullet-style vibrators, according to Richmond. One Women’s Health editor said that although this won’t be their go-to product for solo sex, “the Pom is perfect for partnered play because it’s very unobtrusive and fits between our bodies well.”

Best Travel-Friendly Bullet VibratorLe Wand PointNow 72% Off$130 $37 at lewandmassager.comAlthough the Le Wand Point is pricier than some other bullet vibrators, our tester found it to be worth the cost—especially if you’re on the hunt for a vibe that’s more powerful than other options, yet quiet and discreet. They also loved the vibe’s six speeds and 15 vibration modes and its travel lock feature.

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Wand Vibrators

Made famous by the Magic Wand, this category of vibrators are specifically designed for clitoral stimulation, says Howard, and a lot of people like to put them directly on their vulva, applying different pressures until they orgasm. Like bullets, wands may also appeal to beginners because the head is so big, you can’t really go wrong with where you place it on your vulva. You’ll feel strong, rumbly vibrations all over, which can make it super easy to orgasm.

While both wands and bullets are designed with the same goal in mind, they differ significantly in type and intensity of vibration. Because wands are bigger, heavier toys with stronger motors, their lowest level of vibration might feel as intense as a bullet’s highest level. Some people really enjoy the deeper, more rumbly vibrations of a wand, while others prefer the more pinpointed buzzy vibes of a bullet. So, if you know you enjoy a lot of clit stimulation, a wand toy might be just the vibe for you.

How to use a wand vibrator:

With the wand set on its lowest vibration setting, begin by placing the head of the wand on your vulva. Depending on how your body responds to this initial sensation, you may want to use the handle to move the head around in small circles on your clit, angle the head in one direction or another, or even remove the head from your vulva and use it to massage your inner thighs as a way to warm up before returning to your vulva.

Many people enjoy using a wand vibrator over their underwear and even pants because the added texture can be really fun to play with, says Stephanie Alys, co-founder of MysteryVibe. Plus, “it allows you to experiment with higher power settings,” she adds, without overstimulating your clit. So, if the vibrations feel too strong on your bare skin, you can always try that to lessen the intensity while also experimenting with different sensations. One sensation you should avoid, however, is the feeling of shower or bath water against your wand as the vast majority of these vibrators are not waterproof (although that is beginning to change with LeWand’s new submersible wand!).

While wands are bigger and heavier than other vibes, they are still a great option for partnered play, says Howard. If you’re having penetrative sex, the long handle can allow either partner to hold the wand on the receiving partner’s clit or other erogenous zones (again, this is easiest in a from-behind sex position). The long handle and wide head also come in handy during outercourse—a.k.a. non-penetrative sex—since the giving partner doesn’t have to worry about being super precise with where they place the toy on the receiving partner’s genitals to ensure they have a pleasurable experience. (The all-over vibrations will take care of that!)

Wand Vibrators We LoveBest Overall Wand VibratorHitachi Magic Wand Rechargeable$140 at BabelandOne Women’s Health editor described the Magic Wand Rechargeable as “the gold standard” of wand vibrators. “The Magic Wand is the only vibrator that lives full-time on my nightstand, and no matter how many other toys I try, nothing can replace it,” they said. “The strength of this vibrator is its strong suit—so much so that I never need the highest level.”

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Best Lightweight Wand VibratorFun Factory Vim$169 at AmazonCredit: Florence Sullivan For Women’s Health“This vibrator is whisper-quiet, yet packs as powerful a punch as the Magic Wand. Also, the ridges on the head of the wand totally elevate the experience,” wrote our tester, who said they orgasmed in record time. “It’s also super lightweight compared with the Magic Wand and other larger sex toys.”

Best Travel-Friendly Wand VibratorLe Wand Rechargeable Vibrating MassagerNow 40% Off$180 $108 at lewandmassager.com$180 at Amazon$180 at b-vibe“LeWand offers a really smooth vibe—some wands feel like they’re about to pulse right out of your hand, but this one had a really stable handle,” WH’s reviewer said. “I also like that it has so many speeds (10!) and vibration patterns (20!).” Plus, it comes with a travel pouch and a “travel lock” setting, so you can easily take it to a partner’s place or on a trip.

Best Overall Wand VibratorHitachi Magic Wand Rechargeable$140 at BabelandOne Women’s Health editor described the Magic Wand Rechargeable as “the gold standard” of wand vibrators. “The Magic Wand is the only vibrator that lives full-time on my nightstand, and no matter how many other toys I try, nothing can replace it,” they said. “The strength of this vibrator is its strong suit—so much so that I never need the highest level.”

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Best Lightweight Wand VibratorFun Factory Vim$169 at AmazonCredit: Florence Sullivan For Women’s Health“This vibrator is whisper-quiet, yet packs as powerful a punch as the Magic Wand. Also, the ridges on the head of the wand totally elevate the experience,” wrote our tester, who said they orgasmed in record time. “It’s also super lightweight compared with the Magic Wand and other larger sex toys.”

Best Travel-Friendly Wand VibratorLe Wand Rechargeable Vibrating MassagerNow 40% Off$180 $108 at lewandmassager.com$180 at Amazon$180 at b-vibe“LeWand offers a really smooth vibe—some wands feel like they’re about to pulse right out of your hand, but this one had a really stable handle,” WH’s reviewer said. “I also like that it has so many speeds (10!) and vibration patterns (20!).” Plus, it comes with a travel pouch and a “travel lock” setting, so you can easily take it to a partner’s place or on a trip.

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Clitoral Suction Vibrators

First introduced by the sex toy brand Womanizer about a decade ago, clitoral suction vibrators use either suction or air pressure technology to provide a sucking stimulation on the clit (or tip of the penis) that mimics the feeling of receiving oral sex. If you enjoy receiving cunnilingus from a human mouth, chances are you’ll really enjoy experiencing a similar sensation from a vibrator.

While this is a relatively newer category of vibrator, it’s quickly become one of the most popular—and for good reason. “People love these clitoral sucking toys because it gives them orgasms in, like, three seconds,” says Howard.

How to use a clitoral suction vibrator:

All you have to do is place the suction head on your clit, and then increase the intensity of the suction based on how your body responds. Depending on the size and shape of your clitoral hood, you may need to hold that up with one hand in order to locate your clit and put the vibrator directly on it. And remember to use some lube—it mimics the saliva that would be on the clitoris from a partner’s mouth.

With this type of vibrator, precise placement does matter, so don’t be afraid to pull out a hand mirror for a quick anatomy lesson so you don’t blindly reach down there with your toy. There’s no shame in learning more about your body—and it’s never too late to learn!

You can also use a clitoral suction vibrator during penetrative sex, although it can be difficult to keep the toy in place if there’s a lot of thrusting or other types of movement going on. So, you may be better off incorporating this type of vibe into outercourse or foreplay.

Suction Vibrators We LoveBest Overall Suction VibratorWomanizer Premium 2Now 10% Off$199 $179 at womanizer.com$189 at Amazon$189 at shopabunda.comWH’s testers found the Womanizer Premium 2 to be the best and most discreet suction vibrator on the market, thanks to its Smart Silence feature. “The Womanizer Premium 2 is super easy to use and intuitive, and I liked the patterns. The feel was also very luxurious,” said one reviewer. “It’s certainly a bedside staple.”

Best Travel-Friendly Suction VibratorLelo Sona 2 CruiseNow 25% Off$149 $112 at LELO$89 at Amazon$124 at WalmartWhile the Womanizer Premium 2 is one Women’s Health editor favorite, another tester preferred the Sona 2 Cruise. “I love clitoral suction toys, and this one is much smaller and more compact than others I’ve tried, like the Womanizer or Satisfyer Pro, making it perfect for travel,” they said. “It’s one of my favorite vibrators.”

Best Quiet Suction VibratorBiird LumiiNow 15% Off$89 $76 at biird.coOur tester was pleasantly surprised by just how much power was packed into this pocket-sized vibe. “I’ve tried a lot of popular clit suction vibrators, like the Satisfyer and Womanizer Premium 2, and the Biird Lumii delivered just as strong and satisfying sensations as those bigger toys,” they said. “I couldn’t believe how powerful it was, while staying super quiet. It’s the perfect discreet vibrator.”

Best Overall Suction VibratorWomanizer Premium 2Now 10% Off$199 $179 at womanizer.com$189 at Amazon$189 at shopabunda.comWH’s testers found the Womanizer Premium 2 to be the best and most discreet suction vibrator on the market, thanks to its Smart Silence feature. “The Womanizer Premium 2 is super easy to use and intuitive, and I liked the patterns. The feel was also very luxurious,” said one reviewer. “It’s certainly a bedside staple.”

Best Travel-Friendly Suction VibratorLelo Sona 2 CruiseNow 25% Off$149 $112 at LELO$89 at Amazon$124 at WalmartWhile the Womanizer Premium 2 is one Women’s Health editor favorite, another tester preferred the Sona 2 Cruise. “I love clitoral suction toys, and this one is much smaller and more compact than others I’ve tried, like the Womanizer or Satisfyer Pro, making it perfect for travel,” they said. “It’s one of my favorite vibrators.”

Best Quiet Suction VibratorBiird LumiiNow 15% Off$89 $76 at biird.coOur tester was pleasantly surprised by just how much power was packed into this pocket-sized vibe. “I’ve tried a lot of popular clit suction vibrators, like the Satisfyer and Womanizer Premium 2, and the Biird Lumii delivered just as strong and satisfying sensations as those bigger toys,” they said. “I couldn’t believe how powerful it was, while staying super quiet. It’s the perfect discreet vibrator.”

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Other External Vibrators

There are also some vibrators that don’t fit exactly into any of the aforementioned categories. For example, Zumio is a small, pen-shaped toy that utilizes SpiroTip™ spinning technology to stimulate the clitoris (or nipples). These fast-paced, repetitive, circular movements can be either more intense or less intense for folks, depending on how they experience sensations on their body. Zumio can also be an ideal addition to penetrative sex due to its compact and ergonomic design. While you might be less familiar with this type of vibe, it’s super easy for anyone to use, as it was even designed specifically for folks with physical limitations.

Zumio Zumio S

$110 at Good Vibes For Internal StimulationIf you enjoy the feeling of being penetrated, vibrators that you can insert into the vagina will lead you to some oh-so-good Os. Most internal vibes fall under the category of G-spot vibrators, although designs and features often differ. While some G-spot vibrators are specifically designed with a curve to target your G-spot, says Lisa Finn, sex educator and director of marketing at Babeland and Good Vibrations, others may have a thrusting feature, be modeled after an anatomical penis, or be designed with ridges to increase internal stimulation. Some G-spot vibrators even use the same air pressure technology as clitoral suction toys so users can feel that same sensation against their vaginal wall.

For another type of internal stimulation, any vibrating toy with a flared base, including butt plugs and prostate massagers, can provide anal stimulation. That said, many vibrators can also be used to stimulate the anus—even if they don’t have a flared base—as long as you don’t insert it inside the anus. A bullet vibe, for example, can offer heightened sensations when used around the rim of the butt, says Finn. But be careful with toys that don’t have a flared base around the anus—that’s how people wind up in the ER with a toy stuck in their digestive tract.

G-Spot Vibrators

You might be most familiar with this type of vibrator (at least, in theory), since it’s often the kind that’s shown in TV shows and films. As mentioned, G-spot vibrators are insertable vibrators that usually feature a curve to help target your G-spot—that nerve-dense area situated at the upper vaginal wall, close to the belly button, says Finn.

While G-spot vibrators are certainly larger than bullets, length and girth options abound. If you’re not sure how much penetration you enjoy, your best bet is to start with a shorter and thinner option, like the Lelo Gigi 3. But if you’re a size queen and proud of it? Go big with Fun Factory’s Tiger. And if you want to simulate the feeling of penetrative sex, try a thrusting vibrator.

How to use a G-spot vibrator:

You may not need to use lube with a G-spot vibrator if you’re already naturally lubricated, but putting some lube on the tip, head, and/or shaft can aid the insertion process and generally make the experience more enjoyable (kinda the whole point!). You can turn the vibrator on at its lowest setting before inserting it in your vagina, or wait to turn it on until after the toy is inside you—whatever feels most comfortable. Then, aim to hit your G-spot by making sure the curve of the vibrator is facing your front vaginal wall and then pull the vibrator towards your belly button. You can turn up the vibrations based on your body’s response, mimic penetrative sex by thrusting the vibrator in and out, and basically do whatever else feels good.

G-Spot Vibrators We LoveBest Overall G-Spot VibratorLELO Gigi 3Now 18% Off$159 $130 at LELO$159 $130 at Lelo.comCredit: Jeff Harris“The slightly-curved shape was perfect for hitting my G-spot,” said one WH tester. “Plus, the texture felt totally luxurious: The body-safe silicone is super soft, sleek, and smooth.” They also loved how this vibrator’s versatility, noting that “the flat end of the vibrator head is perfect for a warm-up clit massage before turning up the heat with a G-spot orgasm.”

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Best G-Spot Vibrator For Deep PenetrationFun Factory Tiger$125 at AmazonIf you know you like girthy G-spot vibrators that feel like (and resemble) a large, human penis, the Tiger is the toy for you. It’s 9 inches long (with an insertable length of 4.5 inches) and has a thick, girthy circumference of 5 inches—plus, the shaft features vein-like ridges that deliver “unique and extra pleasurable” sensations, our tester said.

Best G-Spot Vibrator For Simultaneous StimulationWomanizer OGNow 23% Off$129 $99 at womanizer.com“I’ve never used a toy that worked just by touching my body before, so that was a very pleasant surprise and sensation!” our tester said. That feature also made this vibrator “super easy to use” because you only have to touch the buttons to change speed and intensity of the air pressure pulsations and classic vibrations, creating the perfect simultaneous stimulation for your G-spot.

Best Overall G-Spot VibratorLELO Gigi 3Now 18% Off$159 $130 at LELO$159 $130 at Lelo.comCredit: Jeff Harris“The slightly-curved shape was perfect for hitting my G-spot,” said one WH tester. “Plus, the texture felt totally luxurious: The body-safe silicone is super soft, sleek, and smooth.” They also loved how this vibrator’s versatility, noting that “the flat end of the vibrator head is perfect for a warm-up clit massage before turning up the heat with a G-spot orgasm.”

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Best G-Spot Vibrator For Deep PenetrationFun Factory Tiger$125 at AmazonIf you know you like girthy G-spot vibrators that feel like (and resemble) a large, human penis, the Tiger is the toy for you. It’s 9 inches long (with an insertable length of 4.5 inches) and has a thick, girthy circumference of 5 inches—plus, the shaft features vein-like ridges that deliver “unique and extra pleasurable” sensations, our tester said.

Best G-Spot Vibrator For Simultaneous StimulationWomanizer OGNow 23% Off$129 $99 at womanizer.com“I’ve never used a toy that worked just by touching my body before, so that was a very pleasant surprise and sensation!” our tester said. That feature also made this vibrator “super easy to use” because you only have to touch the buttons to change speed and intensity of the air pressure pulsations and classic vibrations, creating the perfect simultaneous stimulation for your G-spot.

Now 18% Off $159 $130 at LELO$159 $130 at Lelo.com Credit: Jeff Harris$125 at Amazon Now 23% Off $129 $99 at womanizer.com For Dual StimulationWhy settle for one type of stimulation when you can have two? Dual stimulation is arguably the most pleasurable sensation because it’s a toe-curling combo of internal and external stimulation. The main type of sex toy within this category is the rabbit vibrator, whichs feature “an internal arm, meant for penetration, and an external arm, meant to sit against the clit or perineum that patch of skin between your anus and genitals,” says Finn. The result? A blended orgasm. To quote Hannah Montana, you get the best of both worlds!

Rabbit Vibrators

If you’ve ever watched the OG Sex and the City, you might remember that episode from the first season where Charlotte visits a sex shop, buys a rabbit vibrator, and then proceeds to cancel all of her plans to spend some quality time with her new toy. This was back in 1998, and that episode arguably put rabbits, and vibrators in general, on the map. (Everyone say, “Thank you Carrie, Samantha, Miranda, and Charlotte.”)

These toys often have a phallic-shaped insertable piece for vaginal or anal stimulation, and an external arm that resembles bunny ears (hence the “rabbit” name) which can be used to stimulate the clitoris or perineum. Not all rabbits feature the classic bunny ears, though. For example, dual-stimulation suction vibrators, like the Lelo Enigma Double Sonic, are a specific type of rabbit where the external arm features the same air pressure technology found in clitoral suction vibrators. As the internal arm vibrates against the G-spot, the external arm sucks on the clit, replicating the feeling of penetrative and oral sex.

How to use a rabbit vibrator:

As with a G-spot vibrator, you’ll likely want to use some lube before inserting the internal arm inside you. You may also want to put an additional drop or two of lube on your clit to enhance the sensation of the external arm. Once the rabbit vibe is in place, you can pretty much just sit back and enjoy the ride. Because it’s such an involved sex toy, there’s not much variation with how you use it, but see how your body responds when you change the angle you’re holding the handle.

Some rabbit vibrators are powered by multiple motors and, consequently, have multiple sets of buttons: one to increase/decrease intensity of the internal arm’s vibrations, one to increase/decrease intensity of the external arm’s vibrations, and even another one to cycle through different pattern options. This can get a bit tricky to maneuver (especially once you’re in the throes of pleasure), so start out on the lowest vibration setting for both arms and work your way up slowly so you don’t accidentally overwhelm yourself with too much stimulation at once.

Rabbit Vibrators We LoveBest Overall Rabbit VibratorWe-Vibe Nova 2$149 at we-vibe.com$149 at AmazonOf all the rabbit vibrators that Women’s Health tested, our editors found the We-Vibe Nova 2 to be the top choice—in fact, one tester described it as their “absolute favorite vibrator of all time.” Why? Both the internal and external arms are deeply curved, which means “it’s pretty much guaranteed to hit my G-spot while never losing contact with my clit,” our reviewer said.

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Best Rabbit Vibrator With Suction And A-Spot StimulationLelo ENIGMA™ Double SonicNow 29% Off$349 $248 at LELO$259 $207 at Walmart$199 at NordstromLike the Lelo Enigma Wave, this newest take on the brand’s hit dual-stimulation vibrator offers powerful sonic wave stimulation on the clitoris and DeepSonic™ technology, designed to stimulate the orgasmically potent A-spot, located slightly behind the G-spot. “I’ve never experienced a vibrator like this before,” our tester said. “It gave me one of my most powerful orgasms ever.”

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Best Budget Rabbit VibratorMantric Rechargeable Rabbit Vibrator$95 at Lovehoney$80 at AmazonRabbit vibrators can be expensive, but our testers found Mantric’s rechargeable rabbit, at $95, to be the highest-quality budget option. “The silicone feels super soft, and the ears are curved and flexible enough that I didn’t have any issues making sure they hit my clit,” one WH tester said. “Also, there’s literally only one button on this toy, making it pretty impossible to do something wrong.”

Best Overall Rabbit VibratorWe-Vibe Nova 2$149 at we-vibe.com$149 at AmazonOf all the rabbit vibrators that Women’s Health tested, our editors found the We-Vibe Nova 2 to be the top choice—in fact, one tester described it as their “absolute favorite vibrator of all time.” Why? Both the internal and external arms are deeply curved, which means “it’s pretty much guaranteed to hit my G-spot while never losing contact with my clit,” our reviewer said.

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Best Rabbit Vibrator With Suction And A-Spot StimulationLelo ENIGMA™ Double SonicNow 29% Off$349 $248 at LELO$259 $207 at Walmart$199 at NordstromLike the Lelo Enigma Wave, this newest take on the brand’s hit dual-stimulation vibrator offers powerful sonic wave stimulation on the clitoris and DeepSonic™ technology, designed to stimulate the orgasmically potent A-spot, located slightly behind the G-spot. “I’ve never experienced a vibrator like this before,” our tester said. “It gave me one of my most powerful orgasms ever.”

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Best Budget Rabbit VibratorMantric Rechargeable Rabbit Vibrator$95 at Lovehoney$80 at AmazonRabbit vibrators can be expensive, but our testers found Mantric’s rechargeable rabbit, at $95, to be the highest-quality budget option. “The silicone feels super soft, and the ears are curved and flexible enough that I didn’t have any issues making sure they hit my clit,” one WH tester said. “Also, there’s literally only one button on this toy, making it pretty impossible to do something wrong.”

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What To Consider When Shopping For A Vibrator

Material

Silicone

“Silicone is the most safe and popular material, and the one I always recommend,” says Howard. When considering a silicone toy, make sure it’s body safe and, preferably, medical grade as the skin on your vulva is highly absorbent and you don’t want your privates sucking up any harmful chemicals, adds Engle. However, because one hundred-percent silicone is expensive to produce, it may not always be an option for everyone (especially if you’re on a budget).

Metal

Another popular vibrator material: metal. It’s actually one of the most hygienic options because metal is completely nonporous and easy to sanitize, which is a nice bonus, says Engle. Most of these toys are either made with stainless steel or coated in a body-safe metal—like the Crave Vesper, which is plated in 24k gold (hello, luxury!).

In addition to being body-safe, metal vibrators are also great for temperature play because you can heat them up or place them in the refrigerator without causing much damage to the toy, says Howard. “Metal is also really good for transmitting vibrations, so if you’re a person who likes pinpointed and strong stimulation, that would be a great option in material,” adds Finn.

ABS Plastic

If your vibrator is made from ABS plastic, make sure that it’s body-safe. FYI: Some older vibrators are made from plastic that is really not ideal for putting on or in your body. But today’s toys made from ABS plastic are BPA free, durable, and strong, says Finn. Plus, they’re fully recyclable (yes, environmentally-friendly!).

But here’s where ABS plastic falls flat: It’s not 100-percent nonporous, so you must properly clean and store these toys after each use to avoid any yucky bacteria growth or mustiness. (More on that in a sec!) Oh, and if your vibrator is phallically shaped, don’t forget that condoms aren’t just for body parts—protection can help keep you and your toy safe.

TPE and Silicone Blends

Another material you might find in vibrators is TPE or silicone blends—often referred to as jelly rubber, says Finn. Compared to silicone, TPE is a cheaper material to produce, while still offering a somewhat silicone feel. But “it is a porous material, so I would not recommend these toys to share with a partner that’s not fluid-bonded or if you’re looking to invest in a piece that’s going to last you a long time,” says Finn. “TPE is not a permanent material like silicone can be.” Noted.

“Silicone is the most safe and popular material, and the one I always recommend,” says Howard. When considering a silicone toy, make sure it’s body safe and, preferably, medical grade as the skin on your vulva is highly absorbent and you don’t want your privates sucking up any harmful chemicals, adds Engle. However, because one hundred-percent silicone is expensive to produce, it may not always be an option for everyone (especially if you’re on a budget).

Another popular vibrator material: metal. It’s actually one of the most hygienic options because metal is completely nonporous and easy to sanitize, which is a nice bonus, says Engle. Most of these toys are either made with stainless steel or coated in a body-safe metal—like the Crave Vesper, which is plated in 24k gold (hello, luxury!).

In addition to being body-safe, metal vibrators are also great for temperature play because you can heat them up or place them in the refrigerator without causing much damage to the toy, says Howard. “Metal is also really good for transmitting vibrations, so if you’re a person who likes pinpointed and strong stimulation, that would be a great option in material,” adds Finn.

If your vibrator is made from ABS plastic, make sure that it’s body-safe. FYI: Some older vibrators are made from plastic that is really not ideal for putting on or in your body. But today’s toys made from ABS plastic are BPA free, durable, and strong, says Finn. Plus, they’re fully recyclable (yes, environmentally-friendly!).

But here’s where ABS plastic falls flat: It’s not 100-percent nonporous, so you must properly clean and store these toys after each use to avoid any yucky bacteria growth or mustiness. (More on that in a sec!) Oh, and if your vibrator is phallically shaped, don’t forget that condoms aren’t just for body parts—protection can help keep you and your toy safe.

Another material you might find in vibrators is TPE or silicone blends—often referred to as jelly rubber, says Finn. Compared to silicone, TPE is a cheaper material to produce, while still offering a somewhat silicone feel. But “it is a porous material, so I would not recommend these toys to share with a partner that’s not fluid-bonded or if you’re looking to invest in a piece that’s going to last you a long time,” says Finn. “TPE is not a permanent material like silicone can be.” Noted.

Additional Features

Patterns

Today’s toys also offer various levels of intensity, different patterns, and even types of pulsations, says Howard.

Temperature

“My favorite feature of toys right now are vibrators that warm up,” says Engle. “These toys have heating features inside, and it’s honestly a game changer for internal stimulation.” Warming vibrators are especially great for anal play because those muscles usually need a bit more help relaxing.

App Compatibility

App-controlled vibrators “let you play with someone no matter how far away they are,” says Finn. “Having that could be great for long distance as well as discreet play.”

Travel Lock

If getting your vibrator through TSA has ever had you shaking in your boots (same), luckily, most vibes nowadays have an airplane-mode feature. That way, you don’t have to worry about your vibrator suddenly buzzing in your suitcase in the middle of the security line, says Engle.

Today’s toys also offer various levels of intensity, different patterns, and even types of pulsations, says Howard.

“My favorite feature of toys right now are vibrators that warm up,” says Engle. “These toys have heating features inside, and it’s honestly a game changer for internal stimulation.” Warming vibrators are especially great for anal play because those muscles usually need a bit more help relaxing.

App-controlled vibrators “let you play with someone no matter how far away they are,” says Finn. “Having that could be great for long distance as well as discreet play.”

If getting your vibrator through TSA has ever had you shaking in your boots (same), luckily, most vibes nowadays have an airplane-mode feature. That way, you don’t have to worry about your vibrator suddenly buzzing in your suitcase in the middle of the security line, says Engle.

Cleaning and Storage

Types of Cleaners

Soap and Water: Really any soap works, but Finn recommends a mild, fragrance-free soap because you don’t want any residue or chemicals left behind that may irritate your body, especially if it’s a toy you use internally. Keep your vibrators farrrr away from alcohol. While it’s an effective disinfectant, it can break down the material of your toy, says Howard. (You’ve been warned.)

Sex Toy Cleaners: While warm water and soap is best, if you don’t have access to that or need a quick cleanup, spraying your toy with a sex toy cleaner and wiping it down with either a wet wipe or damp cloth towel also works, says Engle. “It’s okay to do this here and there, but if you can, try to wash your toys because they can gather bacteria and you don’t want that for yourself.”

Storage Tips

1. Make sure your toy is completely dry before putting it away.

“Always, always, always make sure your toy is completely dry before you store it anywhere,” says Finn. Putting something wet somewhere dark and shut away is a breeding ground for bacteria (gross), so make sure to pat dry your vibe before locking it away.

2. Store your toys in a storage bag or container.

Today, many vibrators come with their own cloth or satin (which Finn personally recommends) storage pouches, so you don’t have to worry about where to store it. If your vibrator is on the large side, however, it might not come with its own sack. In that case, it’s best to invest in your own or use a plastic container, like Joyboxx.

Some folks also like to keep their toys in the boxes they came in, which is great as long as the toy is completely dry because you don’t want any bacteria growing on the cardboard, says Finn.

3. Consider investing in a larger storage solution as your collection grows.

“For storage, I really like those under-the-bed shoe containers with the different pockets,” says Engle. These are great for bigger collections for various reasons: it’s discreet; it’s plastic (a sanitary material); the different compartments allow you to keep your toys separate; and, if the chest is clear, it makes finding a toy really easy. Win, win, and win!

Soap and Water: Really any soap works, but Finn recommends a mild, fragrance-free soap because you don’t want any residue or chemicals left behind that may irritate your body, especially if it’s a toy you use internally. Keep your vibrators farrrr away from alcohol. While it’s an effective disinfectant, it can break down the material of your toy, says Howard. (You’ve been warned.)

Sex Toy Cleaners: While warm water and soap is best, if you don’t have access to that or need a quick cleanup, spraying your toy with a sex toy cleaner and wiping it down with either a wet wipe or damp cloth towel also works, says Engle. “It’s okay to do this here and there, but if you can, try to wash your toys because they can gather bacteria and you don’t want that for yourself.”

1. Make sure your toy is completely dry before putting it away.

“Always, always, always make sure your toy is completely dry before you store it anywhere,” says Finn. Putting something wet somewhere dark and shut away is a breeding ground for bacteria (gross), so make sure to pat dry your vibe before locking it away.

2. Store your toys in a storage bag or container.

Today, many vibrators come with their own cloth or satin (which Finn personally recommends) storage pouches, so you don’t have to worry about where to store it. If your vibrator is on the large side, however, it might not come with its own sack. In that case, it’s best to invest in your own or use a plastic container, like Joyboxx.

Some folks also like to keep their toys in the boxes they came in, which is great as long as the toy is completely dry because you don’t want any bacteria growing on the cardboard, says Finn.

3. Consider investing in a larger storage solution as your collection grows.

“For storage, I really like those under-the-bed shoe containers with the different pockets,” says Engle. These are great for bigger collections for various reasons: it’s discreet; it’s plastic (a sanitary material); the different compartments allow you to keep your toys separate; and, if the chest is clear, it makes finding a toy really easy. Win, win, and win!

Even More Ways To Use A Vibrator

Now that you know the basics, take things up a notch with these expert tips:

1. Tease yourself.

“When you’re oh-so close, back off a bit instead of increasing the intensity,” says Alys. “If you know a certain setting gets you off, try playing with a new vibration pattern first. Giving your body time to go through the build up again will make those incredible sensations even stronger.” In other words, edging yourself can (eventually) lead to a stronger orgasm.

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2. Grind into it.

Lie face down, put the vibrator underneath you, and grind into it for a fun new way to get off. And to avoid overstimulation, Alicia Sinclair, certified sex educator, award-winning sex tech designer, and creator of Le Wand, recommends you “keep the vibrator and your hips moving,” the entire time you’re playing. Plus, the more you move, the more spots you can explore.

3. Try mutual masturbation.

If you and your partner are too tired to really get it on, you can simply masturbate together, says Engle. “You can use your vibrator on yourself while your partner is stimulating themselves with either their hands or a toy.” Plus, watching your partner masturbate can teach you a lot about how they liked to be touched, so take notes.

4. Experiment with rimming.

Use a vibrator around the rim of your or your partner’s anus for a lovely tingly sensation. This is also a great way to slowly introduce anal play before taking the full dive into penetration.

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5. Dive into double penetration.

If you’re a real penetration lover, you can experience simultaneous vaginal and anal penetration for a truly filled-up feeling. Whether you use a G-spot vibrator and a vibrating butt plug, a vibrator and a finger, or a vibrator and a penis—double penetration can be double the fun for both solo and partner play time.

6. Get wet and wild.

If you’re into shower sex, vibrators can make your next time even steamier… so long as your toy is actually safe to use in water. Check first, and note the difference between a vibe being “waterproof” and “splashproof,” says Finn. Waterproof toys may be fully submerged in the bath, while splashproof toys are okay for the shower but not the tub.

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Also, just because water is wet, that doesn’t make it a lubricant. Whether playing solo or with a partner, lube is a must when using a vibe in the shower. Avoid water-based lubes, as they will rinse right off, and instead, opt for an oil-based or silicone-based option—as long as you’re not using a silicone toy (silicone lube degrades that material), says Engle.

7. Use it as a massager.

While modern vibrators are designed to give your sexy spots some TLC, any sore spots will benefit from a vibrating massage before bed. “One thing I like to remind folks is that vibrators are also often marketed as personal massagers because in the early days, they were meant to be used on your back,” says Finn. “The Magic Wand, for example, makes a really fantastic back massager, and if you’re someone who experiences menstrual cramps, holding it on the lower back can feel absolutely phenomenal.” (The more you know!)

Meet the Experts: Lisa Finn is a sex educator and the director of marketing at Babeland and Good Vibrations. Gigi Engle, ACS, CSE, CSC, is a certified sex educator for 3Fun and author of All the F*cking Mistakes: A Guide to Sex, Love, and Life. Shamyra Howard, LCSW, CST, is an AASECT-certified sex therapist and sexologist for Lovehoney. Stephanie Alys is the co-founder of MysteryVibe. Alicia Sinclair is a certified sex educator, award-winning sex tech designer, and founder of Le Wand.

Naydeline MejiaAssistant EditorNaydeline Mejia is an assistant editor at Women’s Health, where she covers sex, relationships, and lifestyle for WomensHealthMag.com and the print magazine. She is a proud graduate of Baruch College and has more than two years of experience writing and editing lifestyle content. When she’s not writing, you can find her thrift-shopping, binge-watching whatever reality dating show is trending at the moment, and spending countless hours scrolling through Pinterest.

Lindsay GellerLifestyle DirectorLindsay Geller is the lifestyle director at Women’s Health, where she oversees the Sex & Love, Relationships, and Life sections and manages Women’s Health+ content. She has 10 years of experience covering sex, relationships, health, fitness, and general lifestyle topics for print and digital publications. She currently lives in New Jersey with her husband and loves going on runs around her local park with her rescue dog.

Reviewed byRachel Wright, LMFTPsychotherapist and Sex TherapistRachel Wright, MA, LMFT (she/her) is a distinguished psychotherapist and renowned speaker with expertise in modern relationships, mental health, and sex. Her mission is to help people live happier, healthier lives by providing insights and practical advice in a relatable and engaging way.

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